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The Real Reason Behind Why Girls Flake

We’ve all heard the excuses…

“I have to spend more time with my cat/dog/hamster.”
“I forgot it’s my cousin’s/sister’s/’uncle’s favorite bartender’s’ birthday/graduation/funeral”
“Hey. So I don’t think I’ll be able to do something tomorrow night anymore.”
“Things got really busy.”
“I have a photo shoot in a month, so I can’t go out because I can’t eat or drink.”
“Hey! I can’t cook tomorrow I forgot it’s NFL preseason and I gotta watch TV’s all night.”
“Sorry, sorry I have been sick. I think I have the flu… I basically wanna die”
“I’m sick / I’m tired / I have work early in the morning.”
“Sorry I haven’t been too responsive. I’m busy all week.” (4 days after a scheduled date)
“Sorry I broke my tooth in my mobile home… still wanna hang?”

(that last one is actually a real text that I got from a very classy girl that I met in Atlantic City)

So why do women do it? The answer is actually pretty simple…

Poor parenting.

“Huh?!”

You heard me.

Issues like flaking are a result of improper social conditioning by parents, which can also be attributed to changing traditions and cultural norms. In other words, they weren’t brought up to properly interact with other human beings in ways that are respectful. They’re also largely incapable of committing to any planned activity. Chicks like these flake on their own friends all the time. It isn’t until their late 20s or 30s that it finally catches up with them and as we all know, by then it’s too late.

Consequences. This is one life lesson that their parents failed to teach them.

I was raised to believe that you should always be courteous and considerate when it comes to other people’s feelings, personal space, schedules, etc. It’s immediately obvious to me when I come across someone with a completely different upbringing, because they just don’t give a flying fuck.

Bitches be crazy, so put your foot down and call them out or drop them immediately.

Don’t be fooled when a girl promises to hang out with you and gives you her number. With so many accomplished pathological liars and master manipulators out there, it should come as no surprise when their true flaky personalities come to the surface. With an unending number of emotional insecurities of her own, the last thing on a woman’s mind is screwing your plans how she makes you feel. Women have no problem completely disregarding a a friend, much less a complete stranger.

Hypocrites.

So the next time you find yourself getting a girl’s number and are thinking about asking her out…

Expect flaking. Have a backup plan, or better yet… skip the date and bang her in the bathroom.

When You Think About It, Telling Heaven To Wait Is Deep